The disappointment found by not finding the right job or the right relationship is meant to be a "mindslap!" — an opportunity for clarity and change, an opportunity to find your sweet spot in life. This sweet spot cannot be found “out there.” So relationships and experiences out in the world cannot reveal it to you by themselves. Outer experiences and relationships with others act like teasers to give you the chance to define the power you have over the emotions within yourself. Why is this important? Because your feelings attract your life, including the quality of your relationships.
Surfing The Rift
Learning to heal rifts or disagreements that pepper relationships of all kinds, including the one with yourself, that can make it difficult to move forward.
John Dean Williamsen teaches about psychological balance and how to
use your life experiences to achieve balance.
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