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Do You Understand What You Know?

8/19/2015

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It's pretty common for a person to mistake what they know for understanding. For many, the words understanding and knowledge are used interchangeably, as if they mean the same thing. But in truth these two terms are worlds apart. Let me give you an example.

I was living in Wyoming and decided I would like to learn to fly fish. I read all the books I could find on the types of flies that would be good lures at different times of the year and in different kinds of streams. I bought a reel, a fly rod, and a variety of dry and wet flies. I began honing my casting skills in my back yard. It was all in the wrist, the book said. After some rather embarrassing moments of digging the hook out of my shirt, my pants, and even my ear, I believed I had mastered the technique.

I  had a friend who had been a big game guide for out-of-state hunters. I told him I planned to catch some trophy rainbow trout. He had the slightest hint of a smile and asked, "Mind if I go along?" 

Confident, I replied, "Okay."


When the day of the fishing trip arrived, I stepped out my door fully equipped, looking like one of those fishermen on the cover of Field and Stream magazine. I had my lunch packed and had double-checked my gear before dropping by his house to pick him up. When I rang the door bell and he walked out with nothing but a T-shirt and jeans, I said, "Where's your pole, your lunch? What are you going to fish with?"

He pulled a ball of string out of his right front pocket and a sandwich wrapped in waxed paper out of the other. I didn't say anything, but I hoped he knew how much skill and technique was required to fish for trout. I liked Lyndon, and I didn't want to make him look bad, but hey, what could I do?

He said, "Can I borrow a hook?"

I asked, "What kind, a mayfly?"

He said, "No, just a hook. You know, just a plain old hook." 

When we arrived at the stream, I was so anxious to get started  that I didn't notice that Lyndon had slipped away. I had been fishing (more like fishing my flies out of the surrounding trees and my clothes) when a miracle happened. I hooked one! It was a beauty, only about 7 inches long, but in my mind, it was a trophy. I walked back to the car to see if I could locate Lyndon and show off my catch. There he was standing beside the car and on a log beside him was a beautiful rainbow trout about 18 inches long. 

Before I could ask, he said, "Grasshopper."

And there, my friends, is the difference between knowledge and understanding. Knowledge alone can't make you a great fisherman. It is through the trial and error of experience that what you know becomes part of who you are. It's what makes it possible for you to catch a trophy rainbow trout with a string and a grasshopper.

Happy fishin'!


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Conquering Loneliness

8/13/2015

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Finding a significant other has become big business. Maybe you've noticed the commercials on TV that offer people, old and young alike, the opportunity to find that perfect soul mate. Finding someone "special" gives vent to the belief that states, "when I find my true partner, my loneliness will be over. My life will be full and fulfilled." But, if you are lonely, it's not caused by just being alone. The problem often lies in your inability to make a connection with something within you, rather than in bonding with someone in the world.

So, loneliness is not the result of not finding the right person "out there." Loneliness is a state of being that is caused by an inability to make a loving connection with part of yourself. In other words, this inner separation creates the vibration that spawns the experience of outer separation.

The companion you seek is not really a new person to be met, but a new depth within you to be discovered. The greater the degree of your awareness of this, the more power you will have to attract the perfect helpmate or draw supportive love from present relationships. 

So if you are lonely, the place to start is not being on the lookout for that special person. The place to start is looking within for a new connection with yourself. 

Over the years, I have observed a number of people, who after doing everything they could to find that special person, found them when they stopped looking. Why? Because, whether by accident or on purpose, they turned within and made peace with a long-ignored part of themselves. They found peace, and peace is just another name for God. Once they were in that state of being, the perfect person was drawn to them.

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