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Relationships Are Your Greatest Tool

2/18/2015

 
Relationships are the greatest tool you have in your life for effecting change, especially the up-close and personal ones. They give you so many opportunities to put what you learn into practice. This is important because you never know for sure how many of these new ideas and attitudes have actually taken root in your belief system until you interact with the world and test out your reactions.  

There’s an old story about a monk who went up into the mountains where he prayed and meditated until he reached what he believed to be an enlightened state of mind. So, quite proud of his accomplishment, he left his cave and went down the mountain. When he reached the main road, a fellow pedestrian bumped into him as he walked. Immediately, he became angry. The moral of this story is that inner work comes first but it is only in the relative world – in the interactions with others that we can know the extent of our understanding because we can only express what we truly understand. 

Appreciate the value of your relationships. There is no greater tool available to you for refining your efforts to reach toward your highest potential as a “spiritual being having a human experience.”  

Don't Lie To Yourself

2/15/2015

 
The state of your inner world attracts experiences to you, including relationships that harmonize with that inner world. As a result, your outer experiences allow you to determine what kinds of attitudes—both positive and negative— really exist within you. We often fool ourselves into thinking that we are a certain way, but the nature of our experiences doesn't try to fool us. For example, you may think you are totally independent and self-assured, but if you find yourself fully participating as a victim in a relationship, you’re fooling yourself.

So bless your relationships when they reveal the truth about yourself. Otherwise, you won't know what you need to change in order to have a better life!  


Finding The Sweet Spot

2/11/2015

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Finding the sweet spot within yourself is the key to better relationships and experiences in your life. Whatever your relationship is with yourself is the cloth from which the pattern of your life is cut. Your life mirrors back to you the relationship you have with yourself. If you believe yourself to be inferior, you will draw people and experiences to you to support this.   So, if you want to experience Life’s Sweet Spot, that place that gives you joy each and every day as you wake and go about your business, start by finding that sweet spot, that place of harmony, within yourself. Then you will discover that your relationships with those in your life will start to improve, and you will draw new people to you.

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